I have been fond of online communities lately. It adds up spice to my daily online routine in ways that I get thrilled whenever I see new headlines or topics that are interesting, and whenever someone from the community answers my questions and make comments on my posts.

This just means that I am really a part of them, and that somehow, people do care to read and take time to share their thoughts on your sentiments.

I have been in love with dating and I am getting addicted to getting more ideas on how I could share my views on your love plights. Hence, I don’t have all that experiences and so the best way I could help you out is to share some interesting sites that might give answers to your queries.

Today, I have browsed through the DontDateHimGirl website and I have found out that they don’t merely release helpful articles to broaden and answer you dating concerns. In fact, they have built this inside community, wherein you can register and become part of their discussions by simply adding contents to the site, or helping others by through your posts.

DontDateHimGirl offers real time advice to women, like us, who are patiently waiting or holding on to their men and at the same time, carrying doubts and questions in their minds about their present relationship.

So, I recommend that you visit this site and be a part of their helpful community now! :)

See ya there,

Nicole ;-)

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Do you know someone, who has been in a relationship for so many years now and yet marriage still didn’t struck them yet? Or maybe, the girl has been patiently waiting for that proposal and still hasn’t heard any bells from her partner after dating and being together in a relationship for so many years?

Actually, I have known a childhood friend who has vowed never to find anybody else anymore because she loves her boyfriend so much.

I am not saying that the guy doesn’t love her back but after 10 long years of dating, why are those church bells not ringing yet? Is there something that rids them from sounding it yet?

My friend has no idea at all, but she said she has been mentioning about this to her boyfriend for years and all she gets as an answer is this, “Don’t worry honey, we’ll get there.”.. And as an understanding girlfriend, she constantly replies, “Okay”..

Doesn’t that sound a bit questionable? Well at least for me, YES..

So out of my curiosity, I have searched for answers to this dilemma. And here are what I’ve got so far:

# He doesn’t want to get married to anyone.
# He doesn’t want to marry this particular woman.
# He’s waiting until the woman gets out of debt, gets thinner, has a better job, etc.
# He’s waiting until he improves.

There you go. If you wanna know why and how did all those possibilities fall under this plight, read it here – and when you’re done, be sure to come back here.

I’ll even appreciate more if you’re gonna leave some of your thoughts below. :D

Talk soon,

Nicole :-)

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I know a lot of us have tried exploring the different kinds and means of dating. Well, I’ve only known two – personal dating, and online dating.

Well, way back when my mom and dad were still at my age, online dating was not popular.

People before had no other means to date anybody unless they’ve met someone so special in their eyes or they’ve met someone through friends and friends.

That’s how my parents met, BTW. :D

But today? The use of internet and technology has improvised everything.

We can now date and get to know someone through computers and eventually do the meet-ups later on. Sounds pretty easy and comfortable, isn’t it?

Well, the feeling of excitement is the same because you’ll get emails and calls from someone far beyond your route.

It’s like you’re still dating personally because you are talking one on one via skype or any other IM’s and seeing each other via webcams.

However, the only difference is, you can’t touch the one you are dating obviously.

But I am pretty sure it’s okay since a lot of women and men have indulged themselves in online dating.

So to help you out, here’s the Online Dating Sites – Lovesites blog, which holds a collection of different online dating sites plus service reviews which can help you sort out which of those popular dating sites are good for you.

Well, to my opinion, reading reviews about dating sites is a good way to start before enrolling yourselves.

That way, you can be sure that a lot of success is going on around the site and your efforts would not turn down to waste.

Have fun reading!

Nicole :-)

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New to dating and trying to seek for a professional advice on what are the pros and cons in it?

You may have heard a lot of dating advices already and probably haven’t’ tried to stress on the very first thing one should worry about – to keep looking good especially when going out.

You want to always look beautiful and alluring to the one you are dating to but this does not mean that you need to invest a big amount for this.

Old clothing or accessories will do as long as you can keep yourself simple, yet neat and attractive.

Always leave a little excitement for the guy to let him pursue in knowing you.

This just means never ever to reveal all that is within yourself while you are still dating.

Give him a little spice or a little challenge to work on. That way, he may think that you are one lady worth knowing.

You know what’s the biggest bang a guy is really after a woman?

It’s S-E-X!

And even if his intentions are pure and sincere, the thing about sex or him having sex with you in the future to express love and emotions is what thrills him the most.

So, keep it until you’ve been dating for a bit if you are open to having sex before marriage. But if you believe in the sanctity of sex before marriage, then stay firm with it.

Because after that, I mean sex, there is not a lot to look forward to anymore. Got my point?

Lastly, never be too aggressive. Be the roadrunner, not the coyote.

You know, the one being chased and not the one who is chasing. Leave the chasing job to the guy.

It discourages them a lot if you’re the one who is always after them. Maintain a high self respect within yourself and always aim to be someone who is a pretty impossible lady to be with.

So if you are a woman, act like one.

It is more attractive for a man to see you a little demure and confident than seeing you all out without having to hide for yourself anymore.

What do you think?

Oh well… I will be waiting for your responses soon…

Nicole :-)

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Blog hopping is one fun way to get more ideas on topics you are most interested about. And I, myself, find it very amusing and indeed, enjoyable!

I had a slight search for dating tips and have come across with a blog which not only gives advices, but also, helps other people find what they are looking for in a relationship. Actually, I found one post quite funny but when I read along some of the posts, it came into my mind that the blog does not cover mere dating tips only, but including some inside scopes of dating that you might wanna find out.

Well anyways, here it is; the Easy Free Dating blog. This one speaks about easy dating and getting helpful advices for free. What amused me here is that it doesn’t speak purely dating tips. I’ve seen posts, maybe collected from dating sites, about women looking for love. I don’t know if it’s good but it’s one sure way of attracting readers huh.. :D

So go there, and be amused like me! See for yourself.. ;-)

Nicole :-)

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Who says men love women who are too aggressive? Well maybe some, but those some actually are not searching for true love in you; they’re after you for fun, or worse, for lust. Best advice? Never give out too easily.

It’s always a “getting-to-know-you” phase on the first stage of dating. So, during this stage, you are expected to show a little excitement towards the man you are dating, and at the same time, gearing out some of your interesting attitudes that would make you simply irresistible. So, since dating in the first stage is on the process of knowing whom you are dating with, you should not be too cheeky to initiate something more than just getting to know each other.

So, you might ask, does that mean kissing and canoodling shouldn’t be experienced during the first phase of dating? Well, those two are just normal and it is definitely OK to be doing those things on the first two months or more. But bear in mind to never initiate doing them first, let the guy do it. Be demure as much as you can and reserve a little excitement in your personality to tempt the guy to at least know you more. As I’ve said earlier, never give out too easily unless you know that you can trust the guy and that you have known him enough to be exchanging intimacy with him.

Reserving yourself will let the guy build respect towards you. Now, if you jump right into bed during the first stage, this respect won’t even be built. However, if you do wait and do the other way around, there is this sense of longing and anticipation between the two of you and when sex happens, it would be more meaningful and wonderful.

Hope this would enlighten you, ladies, and give you an idea on what to do and what to not do. Men have different perspectives though, if they really do like and love you even during the first meeting, then they’ll accept you for whatever you are. However, it is much better if you play a bit hard to get. That would make the dating more thrilling, wouldn’t it?

Happy dating!

Nicole :-)

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